Life is rough, it's dirty and provocative - trying to run from that is naive. Expression, sex and violence are part of our world and pretending they don't exist is not only stupid but it's denying your own humanity. That doesn't mean you need to watch snuff films or porn but you also can't hide from everything. It will come knocking on your door many times from the inside of your own bubble.
If you throw away something poignant I or someone else writes because you find the use of certain language offensive, then FUCK you and your bubble. I never attempt to be offensive consciously, I just write; however, I am raw because I want to bump into people's sacred cows. If your hide is so thin that my expression ruins your day, then you are not a healthy person. I never want to be harsh but I will always be raw and fucking up the status quo.